Nothing is right or wrong..!!! It is perspective only.

“The suspicious believe everybody to be suspicious; the liar feels secure in the thought that he is not so foolish as to believe that there is such a phenomenon as a strictly truthful person; the envious see envy in every soul; the miser thinks everybody is eager to get his money;...and the abandoned sensualist looks upon the saint as a hypocrite” -- James Allen.

It is well said, the way we think the way we get the results. It is matter of individual experience. There are so many allegations, so many generalizations, and so many definitions of our systems, life, relatives, friends, societies, rules, laws and almost every thing.

From each and every body's point of view that individual as a self is right. That right individual may be wrong from some body's other point of view.

· Osama Bin Laden is right for Islamic countries supporting him and he is wrong for the other countries which do opposes his activities.

· Lalu Prasad Yadav ( Indian political leader from Bihar) is right for the people in Bihar for whom he committed & served in favor, but may be wrong for the rest of Indians.

· Naxalites may not be wrong for the villagers or scheduled tribes for whom they are demanding. But they are wrong for rest of the other countries.

In all such examples there are different views of individual which has been evolved from individual experience (may be good or bad).

There are so many such things, so many actions, activities & people who do announce themselves to be very right. But it is matter of point of observations, thinking, perspective of individuals which define it right or wrong.

PERSPECTIVE - This term is more important.

· How do an individual see himself?

· What are priorities of an individual?

· What is way of living of individual?

It is the experience of an individual which makes things right or wrong in his or her perspective.

If one has positive attitude he will see every thing positive. Optimism is good for individual. Success ratio of an optimist is quite higher. Opposite to this, rate of success for a pessimist is lower.

Many of us do know this fact but still we don’t want to acceptthings & do not think in that manner. If we work accordingly we will get success for sure, may be, not so early but gradually at later stages.

Remember that nothing can be generalize or defined. Things, definition, process, activities do change with the change in ERA or situation.

Best practice is that, one should not violate anybody's rights or in other words anybody's fundamental rights.

We ourselves make our life complicated & make critical web to simple matters. And rest of our life waste our time in solving such problems or webs.

Our ego will never get hurt until & unless we allow ourselves to make it realize as betray or defeat.

If you will commit yourselves to make things very simple, all problems will automatically become simple. Start believing yourself. What ever you will do, will be correct, if you are not violating any body's right.

VERY SIMPLE THINGS TO FOLLOW:

· Be positive towards every thing you do.

· Make good habbits.

· Trust yourself.

· Trust your fate & believe that nothing gonna wrong with you.

· Accept the things naturally.

· Believe that you are not an egoist & you are the one who love human kind.

· You are the one who feel ecstasy in forgiving others for their mistakes.

· Just forgive & forget. &

· Truly believe GOD in any form, that almighty will never do wrong with any body.

It is our perspective which makes things RIGHT or WRONG. If you have a positive outlook towards world, towards life, towards others & towards yourself nothing bad or wrong will happen to you.

Things depends individually on one's perspective.

With all my love & luck

Paresh Somani

pareshsomani18@yahoo.com

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